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What are the Top Lifestyle Considerations for Buying a Home?

You’re never just buying a house, you’re buying a home, and a lifestyle.

That means when you’re writing out your list of must have home features and deal breakers, you need to think beyond the “house data” and figure out which features to focus on that will give you the lifestyle you want for yourself or your family.

As a buyer, you might determine you’re looking for a 3 bedroom home with a finished basement on at least an acre, with an updated kitchen. What you really might be looking for, though, is a place to raise your growing family, a kitchen that overlooks the private backyard where you can watch your kids play catch while you make dinner, and extra space in the basement for games, toys and movie night! (That’s just an example but I think you get the idea.) So the lifestyle you are going to have in your new home is something you want to consider- probably the most important thing to consider- when determining which home features are best for your needs.

LOCATION MATTERS FOR YOUR LIFESTYLE. You hear it all the time in the real estate world – location, location, location… and that’s because it’s true! Because while you can change paint colors, counter tops and put on that massive deck you’ve always dreamed of, you can’t move your house to a new spot (not without a lot of money anyways).

Think of things like what your work commute will be like, how far you’re willing to drive each day, the features you want in your community, and the school district you want to be in if that is important to you. Do you want to be in walking distance to shops and restaurants? Do you want to be set further back from the road for privacy? Do you want the feel of a small community lifestyle or are you happier in a more bustling, larger neighborhood with lots of clubs and amenities? The location of your home will be something that isn’t going to change so figure out what is essential to you when it comes to that location and the lifestyle it will create!

Now let’s talk about the home features that fit your lifestyle. When you think of home features it’s easy to jump right to that running list of criteria- the size of the garage, how many bedrooms, that “must have” updated kitchen and all of the “house data” I mentioned. Remember, though- you are ultimately buying a lifestyle, not just a house.

I have some things for you to consider when you’re making that list of “must haves.”

Write down these questions and really think about what your answers are:

  1. Where do you spend most of your time at home? If you love to cook and spend most of your time in the kitchen, you definitely want to prioritize the layout of the kitchen when looking for a home. You can always add in upgraded quartz countertops or that double oven but the size, layout and location of the kitchen should be a top concern if you don’t want to do any major renovations.
  2. What is something you wish you had in your current home?
  3. What is something you don’t want any longer in your current home? Is your yard too much to maintain and you yearn for something smaller with less maintenance? Maybe it’s the opposite and your current yard is just too small. Is a bigger yard, that you can fill with kids (or dogs, or both!), great cookouts, and maybe a garden, on your list?
  4. Which room in your house do you spend the most time in?
  5. How much space do you need to live comfortably and be able to enjoy the things you love the most?
  6. Are you hoping to have enough bathrooms to avoid chaotic mornings?

blog These questions will help you determine which features could be the most important to focus on when the time comes to look for a new home. Maybe features like hardwood floors aren’t as necessary as having a layout that is perfect for entertaining and hosting holiday parties. You can always swap out flooring later but the layout is definitely more difficult (and more expensive!) to change.

Think about how much time you want to put into your house. Do home flipping shows on HGTV resemble your homeownership goals? Many buyers are intent on finding a house they can remodel exactly they want they want. That’s great! However, lots of folks don’t realize how much work, time and money it can take. HGTV can make remodeling and flipping houses look a lot easier than it is in reality. Consider how much time you have to spend on home projects before getting yourself into something that is over your head and potentially over your budget which leads us to…

Your lifestyle budget. Lastly, make sure to budget for your lifestyle, not just your house. It’s important to consider how much you can afford comfortably, not just what you can afford on paper. Many buyers are pre-approved for a significantly higher amount than what they are actually comfortable spending on a monthly basis. Think about other expenses you have when it comes to your lifestyle – what else is important to you? Do you love to travel or go out to nice dinners on a regular basis? Do you love attending as many games of your favorite football team as possible? What hobbies do you have that cost money every month? Make sure the amount you spend on your house doesn’t eat up all of your extra funds so you’re chained to the house and can’t have any fun doing the things you love!

There you go- some of the top lifestyle considerations for buying a home. Location, home features that fit your lifestyle, how much work you’re willing to do and don’t forget to budget for your lifestyle!

If you’re considering buying a new home in the near future and you want to chat more about the type of lifestyle you’re looking for, comment below or send me a direct message so we can set up a time to grab coffee!